" if I drill the holes out a little bit"
True pain in the ass to try to do but if you feel up to it then you will save a few bucks.
"need tie rod and drag link built" I will order parts this week. I took measurements and know what I need for the tie rod. For the drag link you will need to have the pitman arm "reamed" to accept a chevy TRE. Reason is the jeep is 11/16 thread and there are no tubing adapters in that size. Dave K. must have drilled mine out, I sorta remember him mentioning that.
"ARB needs hooked up to compressor and lines needs run to dash for the switch"
This is a PITA trying to find a place to run the wires through the firewall but you could do yours like mine near the battery. Dave will give you the parts that come with the ARB locker so you shouldn't have to buy any extra parts for this connection.
"D60 needs installed - it will bolt in. Will my existing brake lines work or will I need new ones?
You will need new u bolts that fit the D60, your existing brake lines may or may not work, depends on length since it is going to be wider. This is something a trip to the parts store once we look at it could take care of.
You will most likely need driveshaft modification, shortened most likely.
"I'm sure there are things I am forgetting "
BEER! and Italian sausage on the grill.