Posted here so I can keep this board up to date too...
in a holding pattern for engine parts... so I just started detailing the engine compartment a little cleaner...
The breathers (2 rubber stoppers) on the valve cover had cracks...
So I cleaned them and popped them to peek inside.
Gritty oil inside the valve cover... looks like some of the sand somehow got into it...
So... if that is the root cause... it would explain the oil pressure (clogging), the bearing failure and squeals (like a rock in the caliper/rotor) and a slew of other things...
At this point I am back to thinking engine stand, tear it down to thoroughly clean and flush everything out...
Compression is good (once I did the test correctly)... so I still think it has hope of living once again.